Children at the wedding
After receiving an invitation to the wedding, parents with young children should think about whether to take them to the festive event. Of course, if the child is a close relative of the bride or groom, his presence at the wedding is not discussed. But friends or colleagues of the newlyweds are usually invited without children. Consider the arguments for and against the presence of young children at the wedding.
Children their presence can decorate ceremony. Babies in lush, decorated with lace, dresses, scattering rose petals in front of the newlyweds or carrying a long train of a wedding dress, look touching. And how solemn and at the same time touching looks boy in a tuxedo, giving young wedding rings on a pillow!
In addition, young guests are willing to pose in front of the photographer and their pictures can make a variety of wedding album.
Kids usually love to sing, dance and willingly participate in various entertainment competitions and games. The presence of children can help to liberate the rest of the guests and make the holiday more cheerful and sincere.
Wedding-an event that takes no one hour, so it is natural that the child, after spending a lot of time on his feet, get tired and start to act up. In addition, small children can simply be afraid of a large number of strangers.
In addition, coming to the wedding with a child, parents can not count on rest, because they will have to constantly monitor the child, so that he did not fall, did not eat anything extra or did not take a glass of alcohol by mistake.
The kid, who due to age can not understand what is happening, it is likely to interfere with the host of the event, get in the way of the waiters and spoil the photographer pictures, getting into the frame. Monitor the behavior of the child will have parents who all evening will pull the child, depriving himself and his pleasure of being present at the festival.
In addition, children have their own regime, so parents will have to leave the wedding early enough, as the child will have to go to bed.
Thus, you should think carefully whether to take a small child with you to the celebration. And before you make a decision, you need to ask permission from the owners of the holiday, that is, the bride and groom. It is necessary, as well, to find out whether there will be other children at the festival. So, if young guests recruited a lot, then they can be organized a separate table with age-appropriate treats,and its entertainment. In addition, deciding whether to take children to the wedding celebration, it is necessary to take into account the nature of the child, especially his health and social adaptation.