What to consider when organizing a wedding
So, you have decided: the wedding will be… What now? Where to start? First of all, keep in mind that all the time you have, you need to use as efficiently as possible. You will not notice how quickly will pass those six months that remained before the wedding. Very much need to have time when organizing a wedding, and do not miss anything.
What to consider when organizing sadisitic you have decided the wedding will be… What now? Where to start? First of all, keep in mind that all the time you have, you need to use as efficiently as possible. You will not notice how quickly will pass those six months that remained before the wedding. Therefore, without delay, start preparing for the most memorable event in your life.
Very much need to have time when organizing a wedding, and do not miss anything.
Until wedding six months…
It’s time to determine what will be the wedding: lush or modest, whether the honeymoon. It is necessary to make an approximate scheme of expenses (of course, this scheme will be clarified and changed many times, so Mirsovetov recommends that you make an estimate with a small “excess”, that is, to calculate to the maximum how much this or that point of the wedding action can cost). Six months before the wedding, you need to start saving money so that you do not have to take out a loan. Well, if the parents of the bride and groom will be equally involved in the organization of the wedding, but if there is no agreement between the parents, it is best to rely only on themselves. Let the wedding will not be so magnificent, but you will never reproach anyone wasted parental money.
4 months left…
Preparing for the wedding gather with the spirit, go to the parents and dedicate them to their plans… once the parents come to their senses and decide whether they will help you or not, you need to determine the exact date of the wedding. Now you need to choose which wedding Palace will host your ceremony, together with the parents to count the exact number of guests. Here you can start from the fact that one of the guests you would like to see at your wedding in any case, and whose arrival will be desirable for you, but not mandatory. The most desirable wedding guests will have to be invited in the first place, and if any of them will not be able to attend the wedding, you can have time to adjust the list of guests. When making lists of guests it is also important to consider which of the guests on the wedding day may be away (on vacation, business trip). In addition, it will be necessary to take care of where guests can spend the night, who came from other cities.
Three months before the wedding…
Banquet hall for weddings at this time you need to book a Banquet hall (and it may happen that you liked the cafe will take another wedding and you urgently have to look for another place). When choosing a Banquet hall Mirsovetov advises to read the menu, to clarify what is included in the cost of services institutions. It may be more profitable for you to bring some of the food and drinks yourself, and pay only for the rent of the premises and the services of waiters and cooks.
The next important point in the organization of the wedding will be the search for a photographer, videographer, toastmaster, musicians.
Photographer and videographer you can find on the ads in the newspaper, or find on the Internet (in the second case, you will have the opportunity to immediately get acquainted with their work). In person with the photographer, still be sure to review his previous work, and not any, namely the wedding. Talking with the videographer, agree in what form it will provide you with the final version of the wedding video – there are craftsmen who can make a real movie. It will be so beautiful that you will never regret the high cost of such a videographer. A photographer and videographer it is advisable to discuss the route during the wedding – they will calculate how much to take extra batteries and storage media (memory cards, disks, tapes).
By the way, Mirsovetov recommends to ask the videographer or photographer, if they have a friend Toastmasters? Most often, such is, and they will be able to advise you a decent option. Talking to the toastmaster, you probably immediately feel the manner of communication, it suits you or not-the first impression is usually unmistakable. It is better, of course, if it is an experienced person in his business – he will have worked out the basic program of entertainment at the wedding – but the share of improvisation should also be. You can think about an unexpected question-a test for the toastmaster, and see how he can get out of the situation. The financial side is also discussed immediately: if the toastmaster suits you, count on the fact that it will be necessary to make a partial prepayment to ensure that the scheduled day toastmaster will not let you down.
Don’t forget to find the toastmaster at svadebnaia further down the chain, the host can advise you musicians or DJ, a couple with whom he usually works. With them need to will discuss and pick a music for wedding. Mirsovetov advises you to choose not only modern music, but also several retro music compositions 60-70s, so that your parents could dance for fun. The estimate of the services of musicians includes not only the musical design of the wedding, but it is likely and delivery of all necessary equipment to the Banquet hall.
Find a hairdresser-makeup artist (ask friends, maybe they have in mind a good master). Do not forget to agree on a trial version of hair and makeup (but this should be done after the wedding dress is chosen).
The next important step in the organization of the wedding-a trip to the registry office to clarify when you need to apply to the wedding day fell on your chosen date. You still need to choose a honeymoon, determine where you are going, and how long the honeymoon will last. Do not forget to check the weather conditions in the place where you would like to go on a honeymoon.
Well, the most pleasant thing in the organization of the wedding: you need to buy a dress, shoes and accessories (tiara, veil, gloves, etc.). Wedding dress can be rented. Most importantly, remember and keep in mind that the wedding decoration should be not only beautiful, but also comfortable (you walk in all this almost a day, and maybe more). I. e., for example, if the long hem can be spurred – it will save you from unnecessary worries during walks on the wedding day.
Two months before the wedding
Take care of the wedding card game two months before the wedding will clarify the guest list and organize a wedding procession. It may be that some of the guests will not be able to come, and someone will be on their own car-only knowing this, you can order a car. When ordering cars, keep in mind that you will have to pay every hour (or kilometer) of operation of the machines, so think in advance where you will go to ride on your wedding day.
If you are going on a honeymoon abroad, it’s time to start to issue a passport – this procedure will take about 2 months.
Choose a time to buy rings. Make sure that the groom did not forget to buy a suit, shoes and accessories. With a wedding suit a little easier-in the summer you can do and a set of pants, shirt plus bow tie, jacket is at its discretion (in extreme cases, it can be removed). The main thing is not to pick up the soiled, not crumpled material. Shoes should match the suit (or pants).
Mirsovetov recommends: if you do not want to get to the wedding five vacuum cleaners and a dozen microwaves, tell the guests in advance what gifts you would like to receive. There’s nothing wrong with that. But do not forget that all guests have different wealth and demand too expensive gifts will be ugly on your part. As a last resort, let give money.
Still need choose sensible and useful witnesses. Well, if they are your mutual friends, then they will act in concert and will greatly help you in organizing the wedding. Witnesses-in fact the closest people (after blood relatives). They will help with the organization of the bachelorette party, and with the decoration of the hall and cars. In General, the more active will be your witnesses, the less trouble you have and the more pleasant memories of the wedding.
Finish line: 1 month before the wedding
Send guests an invitation to cadidates an application to the Registrar, sending out invitations to guests. Speaking of invitations… If you have a little time and imagination, you can not be limited to standard invitation cards, and come up with your own version of the design. Then you will need to print your unique invitations in the printing house.
At this stage of the organization of the wedding you will have a lot of small troubles: buy glasses, ribbons, balloons and other small things, buy jewelry for cars and for the hall, buy videotapes (all this can make the witness). If the wedding is not toastmaster, you need to come up with a script redemption (again consult with the witness), the script of the second day of the wedding, the wedding script as a whole.
The groom must take care of the purchase of alcohol and soft drinks, book a wedding tour, buy tickets. The bride should take time for the final fit of the dress on the figure, as well as to make a rehearsal of the wedding hairstyle and makeup. You can start to visit the Solarium.
Two weeks before the wedding
Two weeks before the wedding, the most significant organizational issues have already been resolved. Now once again, already finally specify the guest list and make a plan of Seating guests in the Banquet hall (in front of each place you can put a personal napkin). Order the cake, the bride’s bouquet. In addition, you need to take care of where the wedding night will be held – if in a hotel, you need to book a room in advance. Buy everything you need for your honeymoon. To relatives were under fact, develop a detailed plan for everyone – then in day wedding they will you help, not get in the way under with their feet.
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