If you are a witness at the wedding
Anything can happen in life. And if one day your boyfriend or girlfriend will tell you about his intention to marry, and about the intention, very serious-it can not be helped. Why do you need a witness at the wedding and what your waiting for. Mirsovetov in today’s article gives answers to these and other questions.
Anything can happen in life. And if one day your boyfriend or girlfriend will tell you about his intention to marry, and about the intention, very serious-it can not be helped. We should rejoice! But what if, along with this statement, you are offered such an honorable mission, to become a witness? Naturally, you will agree. But the question is, what next? Why do you need a witness at the wedding and what your waiting for. Mirsovetov in today’s article gives answers to these and other questions.
Before the wedding
If you have agreed to become a witness, the first thing you have to take care of is the organization of the pre-wedding bachelor party. What is a pre-wedding bachelor party and why it is needed.
The groom’s bachelor party (as well as the bride’s hen party) are arranged on the eve of the wedding. The bachelor party program is kept a secret from the groom. His last day of bachelorhood should be a momentous event, only slightly inferior to the wedding. Preparing a program the groomsmen headed to the witness.
If you have agreed to become a witness, the first thing you have to take care of is the organization of the pre-wedding stag party the bachelor party should not be attended by women who are familiar with the groom. Invite the strippers, which in recent years has become fashionable, it is allowed. Better to spend it away from family, friends, friends of the bride. Also, this event is usually invited only the best friends of the groom.
The program of the bachelor party, its venue is an individual matter. But I will tell that similar actions usually come to an end with the fair use of alcohol, therefore it is desirable to carry out a bachelor party some days before a wedding that by day N, the groom managed “to depart”.
Well, finally, I note that the groom should spend this day so that in the morning he very much wanted to quickly part with a bachelor life, the last chord of which died down last night.
A bachelorette party should be something like this. The witness and her friends are preparing a program of events. Restrictions during the bachelorette party-only your morals.
From themselves Mirsovetov will add only the next. Do not try to find out what is happening at a similar event on the other hand. Give each other the opportunity to spend this day quietly and without the juicy details of pre-wedding fun. Better concentrate on the celebration.
On the wedding day
Before the wedding, it is desirable to sleep well. After all, on your shoulders will fall a huge burden of responsibility, so you should be cheerful.
On the day of the wedding, you should appear at the appointed time at the groom’s house. You are a witness – and you are the main support of the groom on this day. Together you will overcome all the “wisdom” and traditional troubles prepared for the groom during the wedding.
The first thing to help the groom sabbatically the fact help the groom to get ready. Also, you should know that just the bride on this day the groom no one will give. Therefore, before you go to buy the bride you should bring a small amount of money (preferably bills of various denominations, including small change), a few bottles of champagne, wine, vodka, it is also good to take fruit and candy. Bring a bouquet of flowers and some interesting Souvenirs. Well, get ready to bargain, sing, dance. This is just the beginning of what awaits you on this day.
The tasks of the witness in this case are similar – to come and help the bride in the last preparations for the wedding. She prepares the main part of the obstacles to the groom for the bride. Your task in this case will be to give the bride more expensive, and experience the groom and his friends to the maximum.
After a successful bride price the whole ceremony is sent to the registry office. Sometimes, before you sign, the groom is given the right to think again, to consult with everyone. Naturally, this ceremony is formal, but then you can practice in bringing arguments against the wedding. Similar events are held bridesmaids.
Then comes the main official part, where your task will be to examine the fact of marriage. To do this, you will be asked to sign in the designated areas. With this you will have no difficulty.
After the official events the wedding procession goes to the most significant places of the city in order to hold a wedding photo shoot.
Here Mirsovetov would like to remind that the task of the witness will be to take with itself some bottles of vodka and champagne for wedding walk, all the city has to celebrate a wedding.
Tired of being photographed, the procession goes to the Banquet.
during the Banquet
During the Banquet before the wedding, witnesses should consult: will there be a toastmaster at the Banquet. If not, the whole task of entertaining guests and proclaiming a few dozen toasts will fall on your shoulders. But if there is a toastmaster, then you should not relax. We’ll still have to make some toasts. It is also possible that you will have to participate in the organization of games and other attributes of the wedding celebration at the Banquet. You must always be cheerful and eloquent.
Mirsovetov warns: both the witness, and the witness have to be ready to surprises of various kinds and to skillful overcoming of these. For example, at one of the weddings groomsmen planned such a move as the disappearance of their friend. The move was not very successful, and the bride was very upset. The witness with her friends had to calm the bride, help to buy the groom from the “terrorist invaders” and prepare an event for the retaliatory kidnapping of the bride. And the expulsion of the groom and his friends for ransom were much more fun and interesting. Therefore, you should always be alert and ready to smooth out the various wedding roughness.
During the Banquet, witnesses should carefully ensure that none of the guests were left deprived of anything. The witness and the witness add up their duties only at the end of the Banquet on the last of all days of the wedding festivities.
Appearance of witnesses
Appearance of the witness. Not the best choice for the dress is black or white. In black you will look too gloomy, which is unacceptable at the wedding, and in white – to merge with the bride’s dress. Although it is important not just to play on the contrast, but also quite well to choose a shade. Ideally, the witness dress should be close in style and fabric structure to the bride’s dress, but not so luxurious. Still the Queen of this holiday should be the bride.
Witness. In any case, the dress code of the witness must be ceremonial. Still, the level of the event pushes to this. Most often choose a black suit, white shirt and tie. If the costume of the witness is not black, then the shoes must be chosen the same or similar color. In some cases, at your discretion (for example, in the hot summer) in the clothes of the witness can do without a jacket, and instead of the usual tie to wear a bow tie.
So you are acquainted with what you have to, whether you are a witness or a witness. Try as best you can to fulfill their duties. After all, your boyfriend or girlfriend will remember this day for a long time. Mirsovetov wishes you luck in this and in all rest Affairs.