Preparing for the wedding: tips seasoned
About what is the preparation for the holiday everyone knows firsthand, but what is the preparation for such an event as a wedding? They say that moving is a natural disaster, which is equal to three floods and two fires. So, preparing for the wedding is equal to two moves.
How not to get lost in the wedding commotion and get the most pleasure from the main event in your life? First, start preparing for the wedding as early as possible. But before you order invitations and choose bouquets on the tables think about what you want. It seems that this is a very simple question, but try to answer it not in abstract terms “I want a beautiful unusual and fun wedding”, but very specifically. For example:”I want the train carried by my nephews in costumes of angels, and everything was decorated with roses cream color.” Then mark all the wishes of the letters A, B and C, in this sequence: A — I can not imagine without this wedding, B – I would like it very much and C – it’s great, but if this is not, then do not worry. Ask your future spouse to make the same list, you can ask to make similar lists of those whose opinion on the organization of the wedding for you is extremely important, such as parents. After checking the lists you will understand what idea of the wedding each of you and what items must be included, and what can be avoided. With this approach, you will be able to choose the best wedding solutions for yourself, and will also have an idea of the desired result.
Another important point is the training plan-the timing of each specific task. Write down how long you will coordinate the program, how much time you will allocate for meetings with artists, when you will meet with the photographer, the presenter and the operator. Set a date by which all organizational issues (where to go, who is invited, how to get there, who is your hairdresser, when the bachelorette party, where you will be photographed, etc.) must be resolved. For each task, leave time to spare and never plan anything for 2 pre-wedding days – you need to be rested on the holiday.
Do not shoulder all the wedding business on yourself, try to delegate authority. Wedding preparations should be divided into small functions among your loved ones. For example, responsible for the choice of menu and food tastings appoint the most fastidious to food loved ones. It is important to try the food in advance (a week) before the event, then you can avoid disappointment on the holiday. We recommend you to try the dishes that will be offered at the Banquet, as at the holiday you will not have such an opportunity — most newlyweds do not touch any dish. Delegate the choice of music, invitations and decor to people who understand it — your friends will be happy to help and give advice.
And remember that preparing for the wedding should be a pleasure!